Today was, what we decided, our 1 year anniversary. Since we don’t really know what day we started dating, this one seemed like the best day because of our beach day last year. I have wanted to hide a geocache since I started caching! And since he loves to find the big amo cans, he decided that for our 1 year we should make up a cache and hide it! I was beyond thrilled! The thought put into that, for me, just shows how well he knows me and how much he cares about us. It’s such a simple thing, but it means so much to me. I have an amazing boyfriend!
Volunteering at the shelter today!
When I was single, I was miserable. But that caused me to be effectively productive in all aspects of my life. I thrived when I was alone, when I had learned how to be alone. And now… I’m ecstatic; I’m in a healthy relationship, we do things, go places, communicate, talk about ideas and things we want to do, places we want to visit. How do I find this balance for seeing him, but also still doing everything I need to? It took me over a year to function properly after my last breakup. Over 2 years before I dated, or even got close to anyone again. When I tell him I can’t see him because I have things to do I find myself just sitting around daydreaming more than I find myself doing things. Do other people have this problem?